“It feels like I’m constantly holding myself back. If I try to relax instead of chasing my business or personal goals, it feels like I’m letting myself down. Yet, if things start going too well, I feel gripped by anxiety, like something bad will happen if I shine too brightly.
My oldest son and I spent the other day working on a new home for the non-profit, Habitat For Humanity. It was a hot day, and because we were the younger members of the volunteer crew that day, we opted to add the shingles to the roof.
Lesson One: If you’re going to make an assumption, assume the best in yourself and others.
Lesson Two: If you want a better result or outcome, take new action to bring it about.
Anxiety is a dreadful emotion that turns your stomach into knots as worst-case scenarios play out in the theatre of your mind like horror movies. Running out of money, getting a divorce, battling illness, family turmoil, unfair circumstances, and even being homebound over the last year can all keep you tossing and turning in the middle of the night.
How do Mesmerizing Leaders build trust with employees? According to the Edelman Trust Barometer, more than half of employees worldwide, 63%, do not trust their leaders. Also, many employees do not believe in either the competencies or values of their fellow employees.
Some of the most successful speakers in the world happen to be friends of mine. I’ve studied their presentation skill for years. You likely have as well if desiring to expand your reach as a professional speaker. Yet, it’s not charisma, wisdom, or energy that moves someone into the big leagues.
In my coaching and consulting profession, I do a lot of listening. Because of my skills as a Hypnotism and Neuro-Linguistics instructor, I’ve also learned to pay particular attention to the types of words and phrases people use to describe situations in their lives. There’s a part of your brain, the subconscious, that monitors your daily self-talk and uses what you say to filter how you think, feel, and behave each moment.
When you ask what people most want in life, the typical answer is to be happy. Thus, it seems logical to clarify and reinforce the thoughts, behaviors, and activities that generate this emotion we call happiness.
Knowing which thoughts produce a sense of contentment, joy, or pleasure for you specifically is the first step towards living an intentionally happier life.
The idea that your life should be different or better than it currently is can either inspire you into action or destroy any chance of fulfillment and inner peace. If you do not like how your life is, use it as inspiration (believing you can improve) to provoke yourself into taking action to enhance it.
HOW TO DELETE “MENTAL MALWARE” & SPARK EXPONENTIAL BUSINESS GROWTH!
What You’ll Walk Away With:
– The ability to recognize and remove mental malware
– How to push your “mindset reset” button to get back in the zone
– 3 Mind Hacks for instantly optimizing every action you take